Thursday, March 4

English teacher: how to use its and it's



A few weeks ago I revealed the fact that I was trained as an English teacher. My friends' and readers' reactions were mixed: some were delighted; others, horrified. Some couldn't care less.


To be honest, English grammar is a subject about which many people couldn't care less. And quite frankly, in a world where most communication is spoken, grammar doesn't really matter all that much. But as bloggers, we're now living in a world in which much of our communication is written. . . and in the world of writing, grammar is important.

Do you know why grammar is important? Did you ever have an English teacher explain to you the purpose behind the rules? Or did you suffer at the hands of seemingly uncaring teachers who sought only to cover your papers with red marks?

Well, if I'd been your English teacher, the first thing I would have explained is that grammar is not important in and of itself. It's part of a larger package: the package of language. Language is a gift from God, and the purpose of language is communication. Who cares if you know the rules of grammar? Honestly--who really cares?

Here's a better question: who cares if you can use the language adeptly? Who cares if you can make yourself understood? Who cares if you can avoid being misunderstood? I'd like to suggest that we should all care about that.

So I'm going to try something here. I'm going to offer a little lesson on grammar. If y'all like it and think it's helpful, I'll do it once a week.


I'll start today by explaining how to use the words "its" and "it's."

You probably already know that it is a pronoun. And you know that a noun is a word that names something--a person, place, thing, or idea. We don't usually have any problems using nouns. A pronoun is a word that can take the place of a noun. Personal pronouns are some of the niftiest, most useful words in our language. Imagine having to communicate without ever using the words I, me, you, he, she, or it. Yikes! It would be nearly impossible.

But there's something you need to know about pronouns. Personal pronouns are not ever spelled with apostrophes, not even when you write the possessive form of them. This confuses people, who are accustomed to adding an apostrophe + s to a word to form a possessive. That is the rule for forming the possessive of a singular noun, but not for a pronoun. So if you want to say that something belongs to it, the word you want is its. No apostrophe.

Now here's the tricky part. Pronouns can be used to form contractions. You remember contractions: handy little words that are actually the combination of two words, with some letters left out. The left-out letters are represented by an apostrophe. For instance: don't is a contraction of the words do and not. An apostrophe replaces the missing "o" when the two words are combined.

So here's your rule: Use an apostrophe in the word "its" ONLY when you mean to use the contraction of "it is."

It's = it is
Its = belonging to it

If you're ever unsure, stop and ask yourself: Can I replace the word "it's" with the words "it is"?

Examples:

It's a beautiful day today. It is a beautiful day today. Yes!
The cat licked it's foot. The cat licked it is foot? No way! The word needed here is "its."

So what do you think? Should I put on my English teacher hat once a week? Would it be helpful to you? Or are you grateful that you're out of high school and don't ever have to think about English grammar again? Please let me know what you think!


Wednesday, March 3

Just for fun

It snowed again last night. Arrgghh.

No matter. It's March, and I am declaring winter to be over. At least inside my house.

We're a house full of redheads, so we love St. Patrick's Day. I don't do a lot of decorating for St. Pat's, but it's fun to do a little. As for other small holidays, I group my decorations on my dough cabinet:




It doesn't take a lot to make a nice little holiday vignette. I'm still using my ugly-Goodwill-plate-turned-chalkboard, as well as my Heirloom-white-painted candlesticks. I just changed the Valentine's greeting to a St. Patrick's greeting and the red candles to green candles. The other things I've picked up over the years.


If you'd like to do some St. Patrick's decorating for yourself but don't have any St. Patrick's decor, here are a few tips:
  • Pull some green candles from your Christmas stash. Or pull some green wrapping paper from your Christmas stash, and either wrap a band of paper around the candles a la Amanda or Mod Podge some onto your candles a la Manuela or Traci.
  • St. Patrick's Day is all about the wearing of the green. If nothing else, you probably have a green plant you can showcase. If not, buy a little golden pothos next time you're at the grocery store. These plants are practically foolproof, and their beautiful color will brighten any tabletop. You can read all about golden pothos here.

Photo courtesy of about.com

  • Next year, look for wrapped candies such as Hershey's kisses on after-Christmas clearance. Divide the candies into colors. Use silver-wrapped candies for New Year's, red-wrapped candies for Valentine's Day, and green-wrapped candies for St. Patrick's Day.
  • Try to drop by TJMaxx or HomeGoods right after St. Patrick's Day. You'll likely be able to find some special little St. Patrick's goody on clearance.


Now, just for fun: can you tell me what "Erin Go Bragh" means? Leave me a comment with the answer, and I'll randomly choose a winner for a little prize!


Monday, March 1

A welcoming space

My guest room updates are complete. Come on in and take a look!



The beds are sporting their new headboards as well as matching throws. These matelasse coverlets I've had for 10 years; I just keep re-using them in different ways. The throw pillows and mock balloon shades I made several years ago. I still like this fabric and wanted to re-use it, which is why I was so glad to find the new fabric for the headboards.

A note about guest beds: I like twin beds for a guest room. I have three sons, and this room is often used by their friends. Guys do not like to share a bed, I've learned. If we had a double bed in here and needed to house two guys, one would sleep on the bed and one would sleep on the floor. Twin beds make the room a bit more versatile. And the couples who visit us don't seem to mind sleeping in twin beds. They can always pretend they're on a 1950's TV show. "Good night, Ricky." "Night, Lucy."

Here's the rest of the guest room. Our guest room is, generally speaking, the last stop for furniture we've used other places. The bedside table (from Bombay Company, a store I still miss) once held a lamp beside my living room sofa. The secretary was an estate sale find many years ago. The wing-backed chair once graced my mother's living room. And the chest of drawers lived in my parents' bedroom. . . then in mine. . . then got painted white and served as a changing table in my boys' nursery. . . and now lives on in a coat of black paint. Good thing I like mixed rather than matched furniture.



The chairside table is a stack of hatboxes I found at an antique store.




One of my favorite things about our house is that it has a guest bedroom and bath en suite. The bathroom isn't large, but it's private. The black and white checked floor seemed to me to beg for some red. I love this hot-air balloon toile shower curtain. This fabric was another find at the $7.99/yard fabric store.


Click here if you'd like to read about how I made the curtain. My sewing skills are limited to straight lines, but it's amazing what you can make if you can sew a straight line!

The guest room and bath have a few French touches. I already had the French posters which hang over the beds, so I just looked for things to go with these.




I love the little prints in the bathroom. Those I found several years ago at the One Spot at Target: the prints were 4 for $1 and the frames were $1 each. The ceiling tile was from Dollar General. I found it on clearance for 50 cents. It had an ugly floral decal on it; I just spray painted several layers of black and Heirloom White and distressed it a bit. The clock was my one splurge: it was $15 at TJMaxx.



All in all, my guest suite required a bit of time but very little cash to make it a welcoming space. If any of you, my blogging friends, come to visit me, this is where you'll stay. . . and you can let me know if it's a comfortable place to be. Meanwhile, thanks for taking this little tour with me!

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