Tuesday, November 11, 2014

How to prepare your home for guests

If you're like me, you're preparing to host guests during the upcoming holidays.  And you'd truly like to be a gracious host.

Easy tips for preparing your home to welcome guests

This year will mark the 30th Thanksgiving and Christmas my husband and I have celebrated in our own home.  "Home" for us has ranged from a 500-square-foot apartment in married students' housing to our current large house.  Over the years I've learned that the welcome I provide my guests is much more important than the fanciness of the space.

The goal of hospitality is not to pamper our guests; it's to make them feel welcome.  So don't be intimidated by the idea of trying to create a guest space that's comparable to a four-star hotel. Instead, try to anticipate your guests' needs and try to make them feel at home.

Here are some simple tips for preparing your home for guests.

Make sure the bed(s) are comfortable.  The best way to do this is to spend a night in the guest bed!  I did this and learned that my guest beds weren't quite supportive enough.  I remedied that situation by placing a sheet of plywood underneath each mattress, then added a foam topper to each bed.

I like twin beds in a guest room, which makes the space more versatile.  I've found that most married couples don't mind sleeping in twin beds for a night or two, and this way the space can easily accommodate others.

Be sure that your bed linens are nice and clean.  Since some guests suffer from allergies, don't use heavily-scented detergents or fabric softeners when laundering linens.  Instead, add some white vinegar to the rinse water.  Don't forget to launder or dry clean blankets, bedspreads, comforters, and pillows as needed.

If space allows, keep extra sheets, blankets, and pillows in the guest room.  Mine are on the top shelf of the closet.

While the linens are off the bed, take the opportunity to dust and vacuum the guest room thoroughly. Take a good look at the carpet or rug while you're vacuuming to see if steam cleaning is needed.

If your guest bed needs a headboard, you can easily and inexpensively make an upholstered one!  All you need is a piece of plywood, some foam, fabric, and a staple gun.  Click here for a simple tutorial. And if you're in need of a night stand, consider any piece of furniture you might be able to re-invent. The nightstand in this room was a small chest from Bombay--remember that store?  I painted it with homemade chalk paint, and now it has a new life!

Supply the guest room with a spot for guests to place their luggage and room to unpack their clothes. Guest closets often provide necessary storage space in homes, but be sure there is ample space for guests to hang clothes.  Provide plenty of nice hangers and an ironing board and iron if possible.

Provide several sources of light, including a lamp by the bed.  You may also want to provide a night light which guests can unplug if it's not needed.

Now for the guest bathroom.  If you're very fortunate, you have a bathroom attached to the guests' sleeping space.  If not, be sure that your guests know which bathroom to use and be certain that the path to the bathroom isn't blocked in any way.  If the bathroom is down the hall, you may want to place a nightlight in the hallway.

Scrub the bathroom thoroughly.  If needed, wash the rugs.  Check the shower curtain liner and wash or replace if necessary.

Double-check the sink and bathtub/shower drains.  If they're running slow, use a drain opener to get them cleaned out.  Alternatively, pour some full-strength bleach down the drains, followed by the hottest water your tap will produce.  Or to clean your drains more gently, pour some baking soda followed by white vinegar into the drains, then flush with hot water.

Stock the bathroom with plenty of fluffy towels and washcloths.  Towels needn't be expensive, just thick and thirsty.  Taking a cue from luxury hotels, I prefer white towels, which are easy to keep clean and stain-free and work well with any decor.  Be sure to provide lots of wash cloths, which you can buy inexpensively in bulk packages.  If you don't have a bathroom attached to your guests' bedroom, simply place a stack of neatly folded towels and washcloths in their sleeping space.

I had some white hand towels monogrammed for the guest bath; don't they look pretty hanging with the fluffy bath towels?
In addition to towels, stock the bathroom with toiletries your guests might need, such as:
  • hand soap
  • bath soap (a new full-size bar)
  • shampoo
  • conditioner
  • lotion
  • toothpaste
  • toothbrushes
  • dental floss
  • disposable cups
  • cotton balls
  • Q-Tips
  • disposable razors
  • shaving cream
  • feminine hygiene products
  • hair dryer  
Be sure there's plenty of toilet paper close at hand.  Also, consider keeping a plunger and a package of disinfecting wipes in the guest bathroom.  Many houses now have water-saving toilets, which can easily be clogged; most guests would prefer to remedy that situation quickly and without having to bother the host.  In the same vein, keep a package of light bulbs handy.

Provide at least one mirror outside the bathroom.  A full-length mirror is ideal.  Be sure the mirror is close to an electrical outlet.

Once all those things are done, think about the little things guests might need while they're in your home.  Gather those items and make a welcome basket.  Here's mine:

My welcome basket contains:

  • bottles of water
  • snacks
  • first aid items (band-aids in various sizes, alcohol wipes, instant cold pack)
  • OTC pain medications (acetaminophen and ibuprofen)
  • small sewing kit
  • scissors
  • tube of lip balm
  • lint roller
  • box of tissues
  • extension cord (use a t.p. roll covered in pretty paper to corral the cord)
  • flashlight
  • candle
  • matches

I also printed a Welcome Card with pertinent information about our home, including our wifi password, home phone number, street address, nearest cross street, and the code for our alarm system.  Here's a blank form that you could customize and print with your own information:

You may also want to provide some reading material, such as a Bible, a devotional book, and current magazines.  If little children are visiting, provide some story books.

Just before guests arrive, place some fresh flowers in the guest space.  Avoid flowers with a strong fragrance, such as lilies, hyacinths, and amaryllis.   (For tips on arranging your own flowers, click here.)

However grand or simple your space, your guests are sure to appreciate your hospitality if it's offered with grace and love.

Click here if you'd like a full tour of my guest room.

Now tell me, how do you prepare your home for guests?  Do you have any other tips to share?

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At The Picket Fence said...

Richella that room is so beautiful and welcoming and anyone would be honored to be a guest in your home! I love all of your tips and totally agree that twin beds are the way to go. It's such a gorgeous space!

Patti @ Pandoras Box said...

Can I make a reservation now? :-) I also have left a few pamphlets and business cards of local businesses and "touristy" type places for guests who are staying for more than a few days and want to go off on their own (antique stores local map, brochure from local zoo, mall map, historical museum, business cards from local restaurants, etc)

ℳartina @ Northern Nesting said...

Richella I LOVE everything about this room...so pretty!! Can I be your next guest:-)

Happy Cottage Quilter said...

We never had a separate guest room until we moved to our present house 4 years ago. It has been a pleasure to host friends for a night or a week. We have twin beds, a private bath with a half bath close by so two can be preparing at the same time. My only other suggestion to your lovely basket is a recharge cord for a phone, if you have a spare one. We have had guests who forgot their cord and it comes in handy to charge over night. Thanks for all of the lovely tips.

Shirley@Housepitality Designs said...

What a beautiful and welcoming guest room!!...I love the idea of the twin beds as you stated, so versatile...I have lots of guests all year round...I have a welcome basket which is more of a gift of local fineries such as local toffee and local wine, etc....I try to include all the toiletries that they will need that is located in their private bathroom...and fresh flowers for them to enjoy...An iron and ironing board are located in the guest room closet for their convenience...Thanks for sharing your tips...have a wonderful holiday with your family!!

Kim @ Savvy Southern Style said...

Great tips and some I have not thought of. I always love seeing this room and wish we had twin beds, but are using queens we already had.

Jen said...

I room is so welcoming. I love the idea of twin beds. I would love to come for a visit :-)
Thanks for all the tips

White Lace and Promises said...

What a beautiful room. It is magazine worthy. I'm sure that your guests felt right at home. I should wouldn't mind visiting. Such a pretty space.

Kim @ Exquisitely Unremarkable said...

I love your tips and your guest room is absolutely stunning. Those are my colors, especially the pops of red! I must pin just so I can gaze at it again...and again...and again! ;)

joanne said...

great reminders, and a most beautiful guest room!

living from glory to glory said...

Hello, I think the basket idea is so nice, I am going to make one up for our guest coming. Also the reading material is always a good idea! The code for Wifi is a super great idea!
May you have a wonderful holiday...
Blessings, Roxy

Shelly W. said...

Beautiful! And by that, I mean your heart. I love how you think of every detail, Richella, and I'm sure your guests do too. I recently created a guest room in our house, and I just love it. Hopefully you can come check it out some day soon! :)

Stephanie Volkert said...

I haven't had overnight guests in 6 years. Everyone lives here that I know. I'll have family visiting after I move later this year though... although they'll probably stay in a hotel because we don't have a spare bed.

Pat@Life At Lydias House said...

What a well written, thorough post! I think you covered everything!

Patricia Krank said...

Great tips Richella! You definitely covered some things I hadn't thought about. Pinning to my Guest Room board.
Thank you and bless you,

Stacey said...

Such great ideas! I need to restock my supplies in the "just in case you forgot". It's amazing how many toothbrushes we hand out. I love the idea of providing the wifi password too because that's always a question.

Sarah said...

House guests arriving on Saturday, so thank you for your tips. I always include a welcome basket, but you've suggested some things I've never considered. Thanks!
Happy Thanksgiving!

Angelina B. said...

This is a really love guide. The welcome basket is really nice.

Pinky at Designs by Pinky said...

Great tips, I do almost all of them! My sister is staying here over Thanksgiving and I am making the space welcoming and inviting. I already told her I have a hair dryer for her so she doesn't have to bring it along with shampoo, conditioner etc., etc. Love your guest room, I would love to stay there. One thing that is hardly ever thought about is a place for the lady to put her make up on. Your desk provides a good spot. I have a table, magifying mirror and light for my guests to use. Just another idea:):)

April's Homemaking said...

I love this idea! We have a small house with no guest room currently, but I will save these ideas for the future when I hope we do! :) For now I love the idea of a basket with welcoming little supplies for guests as well as the printout with info for guests like the wifi password, what a wonderful idea! You guest room is beautiful and yes, I remember Bombay, it was one of my favorite stores, I used to by furniture and little accents there all the time. :) Very useful post, I have pinned it to my homemaking board. :)

Linda said...

Richella, your guest room is awesome! I also like the basket you put together to make your guests feel comfortable. Love this post! Linda H.

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