tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post9128437175460044828..comments2024-03-28T18:13:21.626-04:00Comments on Imparting Grace: Time for a resetRichella Parhamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04353214472648623583noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-50015575889605572922014-09-11T22:42:33.611-04:002014-09-11T22:42:33.611-04:00Richella, You have touched on a topic that I have ...Richella, You have touched on a topic that I have struggled with this year. The purpose of my blog and just who am I writing for anyway? I almost decided to stop writing altogether. I worried that not enough people were reading etc. A sweet blogger friend pointed out to me that if the amount of people who were reading my blog actually came to my house it would be enough. Put in perspective, our blogs only need to reach the intended audience that God has for us. That helped me get over my stats! I decided to be me and write what is on my heart to write and not worry about the rest. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and for being you. I have loved your blog ever since I found you.Not because of the design or sidebar, but because I could see your heart. I don't comment often, and I don't even make it over everyday, but you are one of the few blogs that I have followed faithfully!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-5071314381260050702014-09-11T05:35:19.853-04:002014-09-11T05:35:19.853-04:00Richella,
warm and encouraging, that's the pi...Richella, <br />warm and encouraging, that's the picture I got in a journey through your blog and during our short blogging acquaintance. I'm grateful for your today's words, they will follow me and remind me on my way forward. I wish you a lot of heartwarming moments on your further blogging journey. See you again, I'll keep reading your blog. :)Damjanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08973563619159511476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-46231325732216620982014-09-11T05:23:14.912-04:002014-09-11T05:23:14.912-04:00Richella,
Your blog posts are always something won...Richella,<br />Your blog posts are always something wonderful to look forward to. It is great that you share so much of the real you with us. You do impart grace with your words and photos. I have kept the waterlogue canning jars photo on my desk top -- it is so calming and reminds me of your back porch :-)<br />I hope you continue to grace us with your encouraging words and lovely photographs as time allows.<br />Is it tea time, yet?<br />All the best!<br />LynneLynne in NChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08062796052551511879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-67692586170115579972014-09-11T00:47:10.249-04:002014-09-11T00:47:10.249-04:00As evidenced by the many similar comments left her...As evidenced by the many similar comments left here, even with this post, you are being "helpful and encouraging". I agree, do whatever it takes to make blogging feel fun and worthwhile for you. Thanks for sharing your feelings. Happy belated birthday!<br />DDLori @ Dining Delighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16378056932489791580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-31294224318260827972014-09-10T21:57:16.976-04:002014-09-10T21:57:16.976-04:00Richella ~ I totally understand where you are comi...Richella ~ I totally understand where you are coming from. I have only been blogging a few short months and I can already relate to what you are saying. I love writing and sharing with others. I love to decorate and share with others the "how to's" of what I love to do. But I have found that many times I feel the urgency to get something great online - To get a certain amount of posts on my site each week - making what I love to do sometimes feeling a bit overwhelming.Everything I read told me to be a successful blogger I needed to post frequently. So many others were posting daily and I was having trouble getting 3 posts a week together.! Working full time didn't help.I talked it over with the Lord and after a bit of reflection, I came away with the knowledge that I can post whenever I am able. Be true to what I love and who I am - not try to be a "super blogger". What load it lfted off of my shoulders. It was so refreshing to open your post today to see that someone else feels the same way I do and as I read over your comments I find so my others feel the same way. I feel like we are a "family" of people who blog because they love to share with others. Maybe we should start a special group of like minded bloggers. :-) Thank you so much for your post. You were the first to feature one of my posts and I will never forget the excitement I felt when I found out I had been featured. I will always be a fan. Happy belated birthday and I look forward to everything you have to share. <br />DebiAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17199444974776000471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-52805539105359558982014-09-10T21:09:37.003-04:002014-09-10T21:09:37.003-04:00I totally get where you are coming from, Richella....I totally get where you are coming from, Richella. I've never been a "for profit blogger," and I'm so glad that I've not been lured in by that. I absolutely understand why some bloggers go that route and more power to them. I really enjoy visiting your blog, and I know that you are always going to respond if I leave a comment & even visit my blog before I join any parties. That makes me feel good and like we are actually friends. I decided some time last year that I was putting myself under too pressure to write several posts a week, & I stopped. I write one per week at the most, and find that I really enjoy it so much more. So, sweet lady, be true to yourself. I would love to come sit for a spell on your front porch! Oh, and Happy Be-lated Birthday! You are still just a young chick!An Oasis in the Deserthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03775583025686145582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-36528385880603674852014-09-10T15:37:05.129-04:002014-09-10T15:37:05.129-04:00Hi Richella, Great post-I totally understand your ...Hi Richella, Great post-I totally understand your feelings. While I started mine to share with family and friends and shine my faith, I remember getting caught up with the numbers. I follow many blogs that have well over two hundred readers-and I couldn't figure it out. Plus it takes almost all day to just read the intro to a post and not the whole thing. I'm glad you are going back to what you began blogging for-it will touch many, including me(you always do).<br />Blessings,<br />NoreenNanaNor'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03608980502430055753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-35140941720155178422014-09-10T14:47:50.880-04:002014-09-10T14:47:50.880-04:00Thanks for this post, Richella! I haven't been...Thanks for this post, Richella! I haven't been feeling it much this summer and wonder if the world needs one more post from one more blogger-me! Time will tell. Thanks for hosting your party so faithfully!<br />Susan Shullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10035270581759561020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-88969877580824010842014-09-10T14:30:19.310-04:002014-09-10T14:30:19.310-04:00Happy late birthday! Your porch looks gorgeous. I ...Happy late birthday! Your porch looks gorgeous. I have always admired it. Big hug, MariaMaria Elenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13847842738900623826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-69898843861290335632014-09-10T13:34:44.466-04:002014-09-10T13:34:44.466-04:00I relate very well to this post because I just cam...I relate very well to this post because I just came back to blogging today after 2 years. I stepped away for several reasons, but my recent pull to come back is my intention to help touch others in whatever small way I can. I love to see through the eyes of other people. I became disappointed in a filter that I kept seeing woman use to make their lives seem 'perfect'. A felt the Blog world was becoming a place to envy, and compete with. I was seeing woman worshiping each other rather than the one we are all created to worship. But here I am back again....and so happy to see that you're still blogging! :-) I look forward to following along...<br />-Patti<br />http://amomentofsimplicity.blogspot.com/<br />Pattihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06173438158935950093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-89752632012778987182014-09-10T12:39:26.662-04:002014-09-10T12:39:26.662-04:00Richelle I really love and appreciate this post. ...Richelle I really love and appreciate this post. It really touched my soul and makes me remember why I started. Not that my blog is any means important to many. It is important to me and I just wanted a platform to share in my love of decorating and doing things in my home. The love of my pups, husband and food. I guess the grass isn't always greener on the other side, perhaps???<br /><br />CindyCynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18110661139781107705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-22117247149465472522014-09-10T12:33:39.886-04:002014-09-10T12:33:39.886-04:00Good Word!! And.... I love your blog!!! Good Word!! And.... I love your blog!!! Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320503906564783587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-24327368787231261252014-09-10T11:09:49.435-04:002014-09-10T11:09:49.435-04:00I love coming here --- I like the feel that this r...I love coming here --- I like the feel that this really is your home and your family and your life. I am re-evaluating so much in my life right now. I applaud your decision. I'll be right here - cheering you on. <br />maggiegracecreateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12475293299150321997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-53710753308581650982014-09-10T01:10:34.146-04:002014-09-10T01:10:34.146-04:00Such a spot on post RIchella. I have read blogs f...Such a spot on post RIchella. I have read blogs for quite some time now, but find it harder and harder to find ones that I like. Most are just ads or posts for ads, and frankly, yuk. How nice that some can make a lot of money from their blogs, and if that's what they want and if people want to read it, that's great. <br />I still prefer real blogs, about real people and real houses that Home Depot didn't sponsor. It truly isn't because I think those things are bad, it's just not want I want to spend my very precious time reading.<br /><br />I have opted out of TV this year, and I am trying to wean myself from all "ad" blogs. i just want real people, real homes, and real lives. This is what I loved about blogging in the beginning. <br /><br />You are doing just fine!Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07298632258557474170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-85680006421306770772014-09-09T23:50:54.134-04:002014-09-09T23:50:54.134-04:00Hi, Richella. I "found" you not so long ...Hi, Richella. I "found" you not so long ago (maybe less than a year?) and enjoyed your posts and joined your parties, but this summer I grew tired of what became almost a have-to--getting frequent posts out there. I tried to make the Blogher "quota" of a weekly post for at least 3 months, and that turned out to not be very fun. My goal when I started blogging (and didn't know about growing my blog, or getting followers, etc.) was simply to share my love of home and family with other like-minded women, and here it was becoming a chore. All this to say I completely understand where you are right now...keeping a clear head about our own purpose, as opposed to keeping up with others is important. My best wishes in your reset. :) ~ZuniZuni, Chickadee Home Nesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04702101709062226692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-49808493988034604782014-09-09T23:33:34.707-04:002014-09-09T23:33:34.707-04:00Oh how I LOVE this post sweet friend and relate to...Oh how I LOVE this post sweet friend and relate to every word! It's so easy to get swept along isn't it? But my original goal in blogging was the same as yours and still is. I want to be encouraging and to share my faith and to leave people feeling better after being around me/my blog. I hope you know though, that every time I've ever been over here I have had grace imparted to me. That's been a constant for sure! :)<br />VanessaAt The Picket Fencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16846200981778597675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-80135563000772172492014-09-09T22:32:17.258-04:002014-09-09T22:32:17.258-04:00Sounds perfect, Richella.
Fondly,
GlendaSounds perfect, Richella.<br /><br />Fondly,<br />GlendaGLENDA CHILDERShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10413897395818998532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-49957698568943826212014-09-09T21:44:51.017-04:002014-09-09T21:44:51.017-04:00Richella, this is such a refreshing post! You know...Richella, this is such a refreshing post! You know how much I enjoy your blog; and I agree with you. I only post when I really have something that I would like to share. I don't feel the pressure to push out a certain number of posts per week; and I have gone a couple of months without a peep. That's the beauty of having your own blog. It's yours and you can do with it as you please.Shenita @ Embellishments by SLRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10162513189227788677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-53711845959351659232014-09-09T21:38:28.072-04:002014-09-09T21:38:28.072-04:00Dear Richella,
I struggle with this all the time...Dear Richella, <br /> I struggle with this all the time. I have a very small blog. Only 29 followers. It is hard to find the time to write every week. I love writing...just wish I had more time to lend to it. I love your 'front porch' and your encouraging posts. Blessings and Sunshine, ValerieValeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10058968207650986608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-51614573443114255352014-09-09T21:20:46.537-04:002014-09-09T21:20:46.537-04:00Yes! This is pretty much why I have barely blogge...Yes! This is pretty much why I have barely blogged this summer. I never wanted a successful blog per se. A friend told me she was praying my blog would become famous and I asked her to stop praying that. I just stopped enjoying blogging. At first I felt like I needed to apologize but now I'm back to just wanting to write when I want to or feel I have something to say/share. I like your new/old direction. :-) I still want to sit on your front porch....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-11219669796599803852014-09-09T20:49:36.848-04:002014-09-09T20:49:36.848-04:00Thank you so much for such a heart felt post. I l...Thank you so much for such a heart felt post. I love blogging and reading blogs, but so many are no longer the blogs that I used to enjoy! Thank you for staying true to your calling of encouragement, there is no greater success than being faithful in what we are called to do! Blessings.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00369176046736886774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-51876204271762748132014-09-09T20:25:45.771-04:002014-09-09T20:25:45.771-04:00I could have written this myself! I have written o...I could have written this myself! I have written only a handful of posts this year that weren't my weekly link party (which is really just a cut and paste formula). It was hard at first to step back and worry about "falling behind," but now I'm so glad I did. I don't feel as pressured any more; I feel more creative! Young House Love posted something very similar recently!! We're not alone. If we feel this way, imagine how the mega-bloggers must feel. I feel like every post I read is a commercial sponsored post (I do them too!). Amanda @ Serenity Nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16483017563206007698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-23861889682634436212014-09-09T19:51:15.664-04:002014-09-09T19:51:15.664-04:00I started a blog. Then, that was it. I wrote a few...I started a blog. Then, that was it. I wrote a few posts and thought, this isn't for me. That is not to say that I don't read them. OH, I read them. I came across your blog today at the Tuscan Home. I love Liz. I find your blog to be refreshing. I can't wait to read some more. <br /><br />The fact that you add HIS name to posts makes it even better. I hope you don't stop. I am excited to read more<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Cathy.Cathy's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03381852028102527646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-20789735063699813672014-09-09T19:43:24.644-04:002014-09-09T19:43:24.644-04:00Oh, and I totally agree with Sonny, too,Oh, and I totally agree with Sonny, too,Debby Rayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02499542865677173703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-76241248882624769832014-09-09T19:41:46.333-04:002014-09-09T19:41:46.333-04:00Richella, you know I have only been doing this for...Richella, you know I have only been doing this for such a short time, what I say may not mean much. You were one of the first blogs I started following and you were there in all of your sweetness to welcome me into Blogland. Whatever you choose to do...however you change or don't change it up...you have to do what you feel led to do. I never started my blog for any other reason only as a creative outlet for my photos after my eyesight had been restored. I only wanted to be encouraging but at first I felt so much pressure about my posting. When it started stressing me out, I know I needed to re-think why I was doing it and the Lord showed me there really shouldn't be any pressure if we are just trying to encourage one another. You do what you feel you need to do...and whatever it is, I will be following :) You just never know, I might trek on down I-85 and come visit you on that porch of yours!Debby Rayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02499542865677173703noreply@blogger.com