tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post4515901112401566208..comments2024-03-28T18:13:21.626-04:00Comments on Imparting Grace: Real-life Christmas preparationsRichella Parhamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04353214472648623583noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-81001410262163123962017-12-06T12:53:58.836-05:002017-12-06T12:53:58.836-05:00Richella, (pretty name btw. I'm curious how it...Richella, (pretty name btw. I'm curious how it's pronounced?), I second your sentiments. I posted a few not-so-insta-worthy pics of our Christmas decor on my blog this week too. ;) And I AM glad that I'm not the only one! lol<br /><br />"God DOESN'T wish I were like you." Wow. What a powerful statement! I love it. We've all heard variations of this, of course. Things like, "be yourself" "beYOUtiful" "Stop trying to be someone else" etc. But when it is said the way you stated it, it brings a whole new rich depth. It's easy to say that we shouldn't try to be anyone but ourselves, but to think that God truly doesn't wish we were like anyone but ourselves, well that's just freeing, isn't it?!<br /><br />Thank you for being authentic! The world needs more of it. <3<br /><br />(Glad to see you featured on Tell His Story) :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16578456385834895762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-83204671825095863422017-12-05T23:20:58.309-05:002017-12-05T23:20:58.309-05:00Oh my, nothing perfect at this house or life, exce...Oh my, nothing perfect at this house or life, except for momentarily and then some surprise breaks out or some road block appears. I have never lost the water bill, or any utility bill, but I have shown up to a Broadway play the day after it left town, burnt a blackberry crisp (which is pretty hard to do, arrived at the doctors on the wrong day and time. The list could go on and on. We will be driving to an event and sometimes my husband will say, "Are you sure this is the right day and time, Theresa?" Well, just because I get things wrong sometimes does not mean all the time. I have so many opportunities to laugh at myself and tell funny stories on myself. Theresa Boedekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05313461532575587907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-62877595083217977182017-12-05T17:40:56.948-05:002017-12-05T17:40:56.948-05:00Thank you for your words reminding me that God sti...Thank you for your words reminding me that God still loves me, even in my organised chaos state. My lounge room floor is covered in Christmas decorations, which is a good start! Maybe by Christmas they'll be up...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12566013982140847781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-18299517727575963262017-12-05T12:42:49.135-05:002017-12-05T12:42:49.135-05:00Love this.Love this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-2764062919609452182017-11-29T21:36:49.193-05:002017-11-29T21:36:49.193-05:00Richella, I just have to say, I love this post. Th...Richella, I just have to say, I love this post. Thank you for sharing your "less than perfect." Last year, my One Word for the year was Authentic. Though He's been helping me see the beauty of being real with others, He really wove that into my life lessons last year.<br /><br />It's when we are real with others, when we are okay with showing our "less-than-perfectness" that others are drawn to Jesus. When they see us in our mess, and they see that no, God doesn't expect perfection, that's when they can begin to see His love for them. I've discovered it's when I'm not afraid to be real and let my cracks show that His light can shine through and draw others to Himself.<br /><br />I am visiting from Jennifer Dukes Lee's place. It's nice to "meet" you. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-23495446722731796552017-11-29T18:36:47.965-05:002017-11-29T18:36:47.965-05:00Richella, I am extremely organized, and to the poi...Richella, I am extremely organized, and to the point where it's a fault. I find myself not being able to sleep at night simply because I am reconciling what I did that day (compartmentalizing my hours spent throughout the day), and planning what I hope to accomplish in the days ahead. It's very taxing, and while I should be praying to let go, let God, instead I often find myself adding hours. It's difficult sometimes to settle my mind on quiet and prayer. I often wish I could relax more and feel good about good enough because, quite frankly, that's really all my home is. If it's good enough for me, I know it's good enough for company.<br />I like how you "stole" a piece of furniture. Made me laugh.Rita C at Panoplyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17351306074493103021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-48817795046471804202017-11-29T17:53:53.289-05:002017-11-29T17:53:53.289-05:00Usually I pack up Fall on the Friday after Thanksg...Usually I pack up Fall on the Friday after Thanksgiving and by Monday morning Christmas is done, but not this year. My children and grandchildren were here through Saturday and then I came down with a virus. So, the trees are up but all the ornaments are on the table and the only thing "done" is the mantle. It's okay, it will get done, just a little slower than normal.Carol https://www.blogger.com/profile/17128634602955515555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-1405868247316261882017-11-29T09:19:31.116-05:002017-11-29T09:19:31.116-05:00I just love you, Richella! I too want to be real ...I just love you, Richella! I too want to be real and not all perfect on my blog. I try to get things together but I think our readers do like to see things not all perfect and done, so I like to share the progress too and not just the beauty shots, which we all know last about 2 minutes! We can't live in perfect houses all the time! Merry Christmas, sweet friend! Rhoda @ Southern Hospitalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16741881774379561710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-88019812983476276522017-11-29T08:14:31.638-05:002017-11-29T08:14:31.638-05:00I needed to read this this morning for sure! For t...I needed to read this this morning for sure! For two or three weeks I have been planning in my mind the perfect décor and shopping for stuff to make it look like the perfectness I see everywhere on line and in others homes. The problem was, when I pulled out all the bins of stuff, combined with all the stuff I bought, I looked at it and not an ounce of joy came from it......I just cried. I have been trying to put up fall, clean, put up tons of Christmas, and all I see is Chaos! This whole perfect Christmas home is hard to accomplish, and upsetting, and I feel like giving up and it is not even Dec and I already feel so far behind. Help, If you have any advice.....my JOY is lost :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04686094568396450561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-14507122986479697642017-11-28T18:11:28.411-05:002017-11-28T18:11:28.411-05:00Perfect. I have the living room and familyroom/ki...Perfect. I have the living room and familyroom/kitchen done and nothing else. So I am pretty sure nothing else is going to get done. I will just be happy with what I have. Love your guest bedroom, it looks gorgeous.Marty@A Stroll Thru Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12405504522777964549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6758915940467026052.post-79501635733533688122017-11-28T16:31:39.861-05:002017-11-28T16:31:39.861-05:00Great post Richella. It is real life, and I am rig...Great post Richella. It is real life, and I am right there with you. Lately, I have worked on blogging a little more of the real with the pretty. We all love pretty, and sometimes for a day it all looks just like I like. Well, don't open a closet. Most of the time things are not together by any means, and I work to keep my mind focused on the important things.<br />I always say if the tree is up and my little manger scene is out, then we are good. The other stuff is icing on the cake.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10185422453541735778noreply@blogger.com